Life management basics 

HOW TO RESPOND someone 

l. The overall objective in any conversation might be to

agree, to disagree, to agree on the difference and. to have an enjoyable and interesting discussion.

2.If you are in any doubt about what has been said, it. is important to ask for clarification. Misunderstanding and arguing at cross purposes are

a waste of time and energy.

3 .Support goes beyond agreement. You can support a point that has been made from statistics, from your own experience, from a shared set of values and so on.

4. Anecdotes, examples and stories add liveliness and reality to the discussion. They may be stories from

your own experience or ones you have heard and believe to be relevant.

5 .Stories do not prove' anything except perhaps to challenge a generalisation (by showing exceptions).

6 .Stories illustrate principles, processes and possibilities. A process that might be complex to explain can be illustrated by a simple story.

7 .You may want to go further than just agreeing with a point that has been made. You may want to build upon that point in order to take it further.

8 . You may wish to extend a suggestion by enlarging it and growing the suggestion.

9. You can imagine an idea being put into action in the real world. You watch wbat might happen and  describe what

you see: in both a positive and

negative sense.

10.You may want to modify an idea to make it more acceptable to yourself, stronger or more practical

ll. once an idea has emerged it is no longer a matter of your idea or my idea' but an idea to be improved and assessed.

12 stead of the usual battle' of argument there is a joint effort to explore the subject.

Hr. deepak raj mirdha
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